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from Champagne JSG

How to Win a Girl’s Heart

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  1. Don’t come on too strong early. Let the relationship develop at its own pace. Coming on too strong early will almost certainly creep her out.
  2. Be brave. Most girls like people with confidence, not an ego. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. She’ll get the hint that you are interested in her.
  3. Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item. No one likes to feel used and unloved.
  4. Prove that you really like her. Show that you’re not simply crushing or lusting for her. Ask her about herself, talk to her. Don’t just move in for the kiss. Listen to her and look her in the eye.
  5. Memorize her eye color. Do this by looking at them as much as you can when you’re talking with her. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to do this for every woman you meet.
  6. Care for her. Ask her about her day. It’s a simple way to show her that you are interested in what she does, and that you do care. When she starts to talk, you must give her your full attention. Look her in the eye. And most importantly, don’t interrupt. Ask her questions about it because it will show her that you are listening. Offer to help her.
  7. Make sure to be good friends with her friends. If her friends like you, you’ll have a better chance of winning her over. After all, girls often turn to their friends for advice and for a second opinion. So it’s best if her friends have a high opinion of you.
  8. Make her feel like the most beautiful thing in the world. You can actually directly say that. Girls love to be complimented and to know that they are beautiful, but don’t overdo it, particularly in a new friendship. Just saying something like, “You look really nice today” will make her happy. As long as you’re sincere and mean it. If you are not, they will not trust your opinion on other things.
  9. Make sure she feels safe with you. Most girls want to have someone they can trust and turn to when something goes wrong. And even when she is having a good day, let her know you’re interested in how she’s doing. If you know that she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let on that you like her, she’ll eventually pick up on the hints. You don’t even have to come out and say it. She’ll probably pick up on it already.
  10. Feel good and bad for her. If she had gotten a perfect score on her math test, be cheerful about it! If she was having a bad day, let her know that you feel her pain and that you want her to feel better. Attempt to make her feel better, if you can.
  11. If you can make a girl laugh, you’ll get further with her. But don’t take advantage of this. Let her be your best friend first, then ease into things. A girl needs to know that she can trust you, and that you’re not going to break her heart because you really do care about her. Girls love to laugh and will laugh at anything you say, even if its not funny.
  12. Let her wear your jacket if she’s cold. It makes an even bigger impression if you take it off of your back and give it to her to wear, but make sure it’s clean and smells decent. In doing this, you show a girl that you care about her. She will feel safe and cared.
  13. Have good hygiene. Women take pride in hygiene and if a man or woman has good hygiene, it works really well on her. The opposite, bad hygiene, is usually an immediate deal-breaker. Believe it or not, fresh, clean-smelling hair is a really good thing. And, a fresh-smelling body is a must-have. A sweaty, smelly body means you’re out.
  14. Don’t play games. It’s a waste of time and gets a relationship headed in the wrong direction. If you try to start a relationship on something false (like you say you’ve had a multi-year relationship yet you’ve never even had a girlfriend), that is most likely where you will end up. Cute little flirting or teasing is okay, but never pretend to be someone you’re not. If you think the girl is only in the relationship for one thing, and you’re in it for another, don’t just play along to keep her with you. Tell her what you’re looking for and try and make her see what really counts.
  15. Be sincere. Compliments, flirting, teasing, carefulness — none of it matters unless you truly do care.
  16. Love her for her quirks. Everyone has something they don’t like about the person they love, but if you have too many big things on that list, you need the boot. You need to love her for the things that make her special, for her uniqueness. Tell her so. For example, “I love your freckles.” A simple thing like that that you know she may be insecure about can really mean a lot to a girl.
  17. If you are thinking something, tell her. If you can’t decipher her signals or see where she is going with what she’s doing/saying, tell her that. It’s best just to get it out there, and see what she says. If you’re unsure of what is going on, or how she’s treating you, tell her that. If you get it out there right away, the problem can be fixed and the relationship can stay healthy. But don’t shoot your mouth off. In these situations, you need to think twice and speak once.
  18. Love who she is, inside and out. And show it. This is the most important step.

 

Written by champagnejsg

June 26, 2011 at 8:41 am

Posted in Share your Stories

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